What started as frustration with my parents' daily noodle slurping at 2:03 PM became a journey into ancient wisdom and the art of transformation. In this episode, I explore how learning to dissolve—to let parts of our old selves go—might be the secret to skillful living.
Drawing from Zhuangzi's "The Tao of Cow" and Buddhist teachings on impermanence, I share how a simple kitchen renovation taught me something profound: that destruction and creation are often the same process.
Listen in if you’re curious about:
The paradox of dissolution as cultivation
Working with life's natural structure rather than against it
How ordinary irritations can become doorways to wisdom
The volcanic nature of personal transformation
Finding skillful responses to unchangeable conditions
Quotes from This Episode
Like a volcano—not like I exploded, but when we obtain new wisdom to deal with situations, we also let part of our old self dissolve.
Our status, relationships, or health are like guests in our life. They might not come to stay but perhaps are just stopping briefly to rest.
Learning to dissolve isn't about giving up or letting go passively. It's about becoming so skillful with change that we can work with life's natural rhythms.
Reflection Question
What does dissolution look like in your own experience of change and growth?
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